03.31.05
Posted in at 3:42 pm by queent
- Giggles are contagous, especially when they are your own
- Polite customers are such a joy
- People never take a hint when it is meant for them, but always comment on thing totally unrelated to themselves
- It’s sooooo nice when someone tells you they like you exactly the way you are
- How hard is it to return a call or pick up and let someone know you can or can’t do something
- Damn! How cool is the new manager!
- Haters will ALWAYS be haters, there is no hope
- Coke and lack of sleep cause bouts of euphoria and too much sexual energy…until you crash back down and pass the hell out
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Posted in at 9:45 am by queent
When you have kids you expect to make some life changes all around. I’m amused at my having had to overcome some fears in order to teach the boy to not be afraid of some things. I don’t want him to fear things for no reason. He has this fear of bug, especially spiders. It’s funny as hell to me that I have a boy that is scared of bugs. I thought it was in boy’s DNA to like bugs…lol Anyway, I am not scared of little bugs, but those big nasty mutant cock roach looking water bugs frighten me. They are just icky and huge and yuck(ya’ll know I’m girlie, dont act surprised…lol) However, when they creep into the house and the boy sees them he FREAKS! You would think the thing was crawling on him the way he nuts up…lol So I had to put my fear aside so I could kill them and get them out the house…which is a funny process in itself…lol I didnt realize he is afriad of thunderstorms either until recently. It’s been raining a bit the past few days and the boy just refuses to go to sleep, or like this morning will hover over me in my sleep because it’s lightning outside. I dislike lightning more than am afraid of it, but it is one of those silly things that have non basis. It’s a “just because thing”. So knowing this about myself I ask him what it is about the lightning that scares him and I get the typical 5 year old answer “Because it scares me” So I have to rephrase and ask “What do you think the lighning is going to do to you”…and there is no reply to that. So I’m able to take and twist that to show him there is nothing to be afriad of. It seems to be slowly working, at least in relation to the bug fear.
I will admit that some fears are justified based on experiences but I am trying to prevent him from having random fears just because he hears someone else say something is scary. Mama did this to us, knowingly when we were little. She is afraid of under railroad track overpasses when trains are passing by. And as I got older I began to fear that myself too. Dad was very irritaed to find that because he knew it came from us witnessing Mama freak out. So I don’t want to do this to the boy, which is why I found a way to at least hide my fear or strong dislike of bugs from him to show him that they aren’t anything to be afraid of. Because in reality, I recognize myself that they aren’t really anything to fear…they are just gross..lol
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Posted in at 9:01 am by queent
My move closer to the city is proving itself to be more and more to my benefit every single day. I am finding that I wake up in the morning with more energy than I every remember having. Of course I still struggle to actully get out of the bed, but once I am up and moving, I have alot more engery. I have to assume it has to do with being able to sleep just a little bit later. Before the move, I was getting up at 5:45 and now I can sleep until 6:15…ok ok, I do push it to 6:30 sometimes…lol But once I’m up, I am getting through my morning routing faster and I am not as grumpy as I used to be(operative words here are not as; I am still not a morning person…lol) Shoot, I found myself dancing to the wake up mix on the radio this morning! So that in itself is a sign…lol I’m excited to have this new found energy. It’s making my mornings not quite as bad as I’m used to…I’d still rather be in bed til about 9 though…lol
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03.29.05
Posted in at 8:58 pm by queent
As I’m settling into complete singlehood, I’m finding myself content by myself. I’ve always enjoyed my own company. In fact, even in a relationship,”me-time” is mandatory and I think I may require a little more than the average. In any event, I’m happy just chillin’, especially as busy as I am with everything. But the one thing that I do really miss is a warm body next to me at night. Just to be warm and cuddled up *sigh*
So Ive realized that what I need is a “Snuggle Buddy”; NOT to be confused with a “Cut Buddy”. I don’t miss sex. Without the emotional attachment, the love simply isn’t there, which is 90% percent of the driving force of my sexual appetite. So I’m not at all in need of that…but I so miss the comfort of warm strong arms around me as I drift of into sleep. Rolling over in the middle of the night and having a warm body to snuggle right up under. Hell, I even miss the slight snore of peaceful sleep patterns…lol No obligation, snuggle buddy…hmm does that exist I wonder?
There is a person that I feel would fit the bill perfectly. He is a super cool friend, and is not one of those guys that is chasing after me(for lack of a better term). That and the fact that he is borderline in a relationship makes him the perfect “Snuggle Buddy”. but I wouldn’t dare approach him. The risk of altering our relationship outweighs my needs here too greatly. And it’s so tmepting to whip out my cell and dial a speed dial number. But I know how much that is not in my best interest, althought old habits die very hard sometimes *sigh* So for now, I guess Tigger will have to keep up the hard work til I can find a suitable substitute for him.
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03.28.05
Posted in at 1:36 pm by queent
This accounts for about 85% of the men I encounter on and offline. Dating is sooo amusing…LOL
WAYS TO TURN MEN DOWN
HE: Can I buy you a drink?
SHE: Actually I’d rather have the money.
HE: I’m a photographer. I’ve been looking for a face like yours!
SHE: I’m a plastic surgeon. I’ve been looking for aface like yours.
HE: Hi. Didn’t we go on a date once? Or was it twice?
SHE: Must’ve been once. I never make the samemistake twice.
HE: How did you get to be so beautiful?
SHE: I must’ve been given your share.
HE: Will you go out with me this Saturday?
SHE: Sorry. I’m having a headache this weekend.
HE: Your face must turn a few heads.
SHE: And your face must turn a few stomachs.
HE: Go on , don’t be shy. Ask me out.
SHE: Okay, get out.
HE: I think I could make you very happy.
SHE: Why? Are you leaving?
HE: What would you say if I asked you to marry me?
SHE: Nothing. I can’t talk and laugh at the same time.
HE: Can I have your name?
SHE: Why? Don’t you already have one?
HE: Shall we go see a movie?
SHE: I’ve already seen it.
HE: Where have you been all my life?
SHE: Hiding from you.
HE: Haven’t I seen you some place before?
SHE: Yes. That’s why I don’t go there anymore.
HE: Is this seat empty?
SHE: Yes, and this one will be if you sit down.
HE: So, what do you do for a living?
SHE: I’m a female impersonator.
HE: Hey baby, what’s your sign?
SHE: Do not enter.
HE: Your body is like a temple.
SHE: Sorry, there are no services today.
HE: If I could see you naked, I’d die happy.
SHE: If I saw you naked, I’d probably die laughing.
HE: Where have you been all my life?
SHE: Where I’ll be the rest of your life - in your wildest dreams.
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