11.27.07
Posted in , , at 10:28 am by queent
Running joke or dead serious: I may get mad,;we may fight; I may not even like you all the time, but there will be sex in my household. Not ‘regularly scheduled’ sex, not ‘when somebody wants something’ sex, not ‘tide me over til I can get to my real lover’ sex. Ain’t nothing funny ’bout not getting any, real or joking. *humph*
If I leave my purse in a store in the mall, please wait until I find out if I can get it back before you start trying to make me laugh. When a total stranger offers me a hug of relief and neither of the silly individuals with me realize I’m upset, ya’ll are a lil insensitive. But since you are both men, I have to let it slide (a lil bit)
As the boy gets older, he gets mouthier. As he gets mouthier, I tend to forget a lil more that he’s still just a kid. He better be careful, his mama’s gonna spaz out on him one too many times and he’s not gonna know what just happened as he picks himself up off the floor.
I’m mad at all the women in my life that have men in theirs. Ya’ll could’ve reminded me that men are sometimes really, really clueless.
I now know not to spend too much time with people who are great friends with people I don’t like. I understand and recognize that’s ya’ll girl. But for real, can we have just one conversation without her name coming up. She’s not here. She’ll be back. Get over it! I really don’t want to hear ‘Person X’s’ name anymore again for the rest of the year. Seriously! *whew* Ok I feel a lil better now.
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11.26.07
Posted in at 3:28 pm by queent
I won’t even try to sugar coat it because it’d probably be a worthless effort anyway. Thanksgiving was rough for me this year. I’m sure the reasons are obvious. Yes I spent it with people that I know, but someone else’s friends aren’t the same as your own group of friends. I missed my crew, my family, any anyone that was just ‘my own’. It was ok, but it wasn’t what I’d call a ‘happy’ Thanksgiving. So that feeling rolled into the weekend with me and I just expected it to be a blah holiday for me.
Saturday night I went to meet up with my girlfriend from college; her birthday was Sunday and she was having a small gathering at a bar. Talk about being what I needed! Not the bar part (although free drinks always lift my spirits…lol), but seeing my girl again. We hadn’t caught up with each other since I’ve been here and seeing her again was such a happy moment for me. By the end of the night it really was like the time had not gone by. She was my only sane suitemate back in college and I remember why. She’s just hella down to earth and laid back and mature and intelligent. No childishness, no pettiness (it’s a word today dammit!), no unnecessary drama. I’m even happier to find that she lives just up the road from me, so there’s no reason for us no to see each other now. It really lifted my sprits not just for the holiday, but for all of me being here. I’m trying to give here a chance, and I think this will make that a bit easier.
But I still can’t wait to go home for Christmas!
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